Guides to bank privacy settings and credit freeze systems (2025)

Financial abuse occurs in 99% of intimate partner violence cases, with abusers often exploiting bank access, credit systems, and personal data to maintain control. Here we cover:

  • Locking down bank accounts against unauthorized access

  • Freezing credit to prevent fraudulent loans/accounts

  • EU vs. UK legal protections and how to use them

Securing bank accounts

Immediate actions

  • Change online banking passwords: Use a 12+ character mix (e.g., Coffee!Mug#2025). Avoid personal details (birthdays, pet names).

  • Enable two-factor authentication (2FA): Require a code from your phone and a password for logins.

  • Revoke shared access: Remove ex-partners as authorized users or joint account holders. UK banks must comply within 24 hours under FCA rules.

Privacy settings to adjust

Setting

Why It Matters

How to Change

Transaction alerts

Get SMS/email for withdrawals >€10

Mobile app → Notifications → Custom alerts

Card controls

Block international/online spending

Online banking → Card settings → Limits

Account visibility

Hide accounts from shared dashboards (e.g., Monzo Pots)

App → Privacy → Hide balance

If these are not available, call your bank.

UK-Specific: Under the Financial Conduct Authority’s Consumer Duty, banks must proactively support vulnerable customers—request “enhanced security” if you fear coercion.


Credit freezes: step-by-step

A freeze blocks lenders from accessing your credit report, stopping abusers from opening loans in your name.

How to freeze (free in EU/UK)

  1. Contact all three bureaus (UK) or your bank (EU):

  2. Provide:

    • Full name, address, birthdate

    • Proof of address (utility bill)

    • National Insurance number (UK) / Social Security number (EU)

  3. Receive a PIN/password to unfreeze later. Store it securely (e.g., password manager).

EU Advantage: GDPR grants right to restrict processing—demand credit bureaus suppress your data entirely.


Monitoring for abuse

Red flags

  • Unfamiliar accounts on your credit report

  • Small test transactions (€1–€5) to verify card access

  • Password reset emails you didn’t request

Tools


Issue

UK

EU

Bank account freezing

48-hour notice required (except fraud)

Immediate under GDPR Article 17

Credit freeze cost

Free

Free

Data access

SAR (Subject Access Request) in 30 days

GDPR response in 15 days

Key Difference: EU banks must auto-delete unused data after 3 years; UK allows retention for “legitimate interests”.


Special cases

For shared accounts

  • UK: Request a “financial abuse marker” on accounts—triggers extra verification for withdrawals.

  • EU: Use PSD2’s “strong customer authentication” to require biometric approval for payments.

If your abuser works at a bank

  • File a DSAR (Data Subject Access Request) to audit who accessed your data.

  • Switch to a bank with branch-level privacy (e.g., Metro Bank in UK verifies ID in-person for sensitive changes).


Template for bank requests

Subject: Urgent - Financial Abuse Safeguarding  

Dear [Bank Name],  

I am a survivor of intimate partner abuse and request immediate action to secure my accounts:  
1. Freeze all joint accounts (Ref: FCA Vulnerable Customer Guidelines 2025)  
2. Require photo ID for branch transactions  
3. Disable phone/online password resets  

My case reference: [Police report number, if available]  

Sincerely,  
[Your Name]  

Where to get help

You have the right to financial independence. Banks must assist—escalate to the Financial Ombudsman if they refuse.


Last update: 2025-06-11 07:09